Thursday, March 17, 2011

Everything Happens For A Reason

Sometimes people come into your life and you know right away that they were meant to be there. They serve some sort of purpose, teach you a lesson or help figure out who you are or who you want to become. You never know who these people may be, your roommate, your neighbor, professor, long lost friend, lover or even a complete stranger who, when you lock your eyes with them, you know that very moment that they will affect your life in some profound way. And sometimes things happens to you and at the time they seem horrible, painful and unfair, but in reflection, you realize that without overcoming those obstacles you would never have realized your potential, strength, will power of heart.

Everything happens for a reason. Nothing happens by chance or by means of good or bad luck, Illness, injury, love, lost moments or true greatness and sheer stupidity all occur to test the limits of the soul. Without these tests, if they be events, illnesses or relationships, life would be like a smooth paved, straight flat road to nowhere. Safe and comfortable but dull and utterly pointless.

These people you meet who affect your life and successes and downfalls you experience, they are the ones who creates who you are. Even the bad experiences can be learned from. Those lessons are the hardest and probably the most important ones. If someone hurts you, betrays you, or break your heart... Forgive them, for they have helped you learn about TRUST and the importance of being cautious to whom you open your heart. If someone loves you, love them back unconditionally, not because they love you, but because they are teaching you to love and opening your heart and eyes to things you would have never seen or felt without them. Make every day count. Appreciate every moment and take from it everything that you possibly can, for you may never be able to experience it again. Talk to people you have never talked to before, and actually listen, let yourself fall in love, break free and set your sights high. You can make of your life anything you wish. Create your own life and then go out and live it. I wish you all the best in your endeavors as well as struggles in life. Have a fighting spirit and never hesitate to get back in the struggle.

7 comments:

monagazine said...

I'm glad na nakapagpost ka na ug new blog...

Just keep on going fern...

P.S. can you update my blogsite in your 'My fRieNds' LiNks'.. thanks

feRn said...

thanks ah meng, i've changed your link already. thanks again ah meng. :) keep bloggin'

printing services said...

yes..you said right..sometimes you don't know how this person had came in your life...

feRn said...

@ printing services,thanks for your comment. :) Yeah, it's true. We have to be thankful for whatever happened to us, it might be a preparatory purpose for future challenges. Thanks for visiting my blog. tc.

Madan said...

Awesome Fern...converting the feelings into words is tough. Truely speaking these are touching words. Keep going Fern...Nice blog...:)

feRn said...

thanks a lot madan, Just a matter of another down fall feeling. when you're down or something like feeling blue can actually easily express feelings through blogging... It's the only way of diverting feelings. thanks again. :')

Nortehanon said...

Ah, yes, everything happens for a reason. Some say it is a person's excuse for his failure. But for some, it is a reason to hope for something better.